Boyfriend still on online dating sites
Should I be feeling so insecure or do I just need to let it go?
I know this has made me feel insecure and I hate it, I just want to enjoy being in the relationship again!
I know he is committed, as he tells me that he wants to be with me and although he looks at other girls, including girls on a dating site, he tells me has “chosen” to be with me.I feel really confused, as my current partner used to tell me that he only had eyes for me and he was (my name-)sexual/asexual, as he stopped looking at other girls in that way.After this all came out about him looking at dating sites, he seemed to take this all back and reminded me that he is heterosexual.The thing is that it’s now really niggling at me and I feel like he’s broken my trust.I feel like I’m in the “normal” (whatever that is) range of trusting partners, even though my last relationship of 9 years ended when he left me out of the blue for another girl (I know this is probably and subconsciously a fear of mine that this will happen again in a relationship, as it was such a shock).
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I told him how it really upset me and how disrespectful I found it, especially as it was a dating website.