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Also, another custom that families talk about in ‘khastegari’ called as ‘Mehrieh’. After this meeting, if the families especially the boy and girl want to know each other more, a period starts we called ‘Namzadi’.‘Mehrieh’ is an amount of money, usually a big money more than 0000 that if the couple divorced, the guy should give to his wife. In this period, the couple is officially in the relationship and try to know more each other.Another problem rises when the families decide to force their children to marry in a traditional way while these boys and girls have their own relationships and want to get marry in a different way with different person. In the ‘Patakhti’ ceremony usually the couple just invites the close people like close friends, brothers, sisters, their families, etc.Anyway, Once the children in these families want/forced to get married either in a traditional or modern way, they will still have ‘Khastegari’ and ‘Namzadi’ and these two customs are done usually in a way similar to the traditional families rather than modern families. After that the couple falls in love and decides to get married, they should celebrate their marriage ceremony. In this ceremony the guests should give their gifts to the couple which usually are really worth a fortune.) it would be interesting for the students as well as my teacher with dissimilar background to know that how Iranians start dating, falling in love, and getting married. The way people start dating in Iran is highly dependent on the family they were born.Generally, we have two extreme categories for Iranian families.Marriage is one of the most important issues that happens for most of the people in the world and probably is the most important one!Based on differences in cultures, histories, religions, societies and so on, the ways people start dating, fall in love, and marry differ in the countries all over the world.
Further, concealing these relationships is not the only problem in these families.
Such families are really difficult to interact with as they are in a transient state and even do not know how they should treat.
The boys and girls in such families are the biggest victims in many situations especially for having serious relationships, dating, falling in love, and getting married.
For this category, ‘Khasteegari’ is just a formal request for marriage which is usually from the guy’s family.
Conversely, for those religious families, ‘Khstegari’ is a formal request for starting a relationship.